Here is a picture of Craig and I taken at my work Christmas party over the weekend - hoping to get a better photo soon. Can you imagine - I've lost over 125 pounds
Wednesday, December 22, 2010
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Here is a picture of Craig and I taken at my work Christmas party over the weekend - hoping to get a better photo soon. Can you imagine - I've lost over 125 pounds
Police paper work done
Busy few days with paperwork - Monday we went to the Redford PD and got our paperwork from them. YEAH - now we are just waiting on my doctors paper work - we'll get there.
Also the electrician hooked up the office - so we'll be moving everything in there, getting Nate into his new room - and then just waiting to submit our Dossier - getting closer.
The holidays are here and we feel blessed. I follow a blog about another family who's adoption was held up for some reviews. Well after over 40 days they finally were told OK by the ET government and now waiting on the US government and hope to get to ET by the 30th! Yes next week - they posted they may fly out Xmas day and bring their little man home! What a blessing - they have some of the most amazing faith - so many people do- but they were an inspiration.
I'm hoping my xmas presents to myself come soon - some kids and family books on ET and a kids dictionary - Nate's still concerned he won't know how to talk to his brother/sister. Can't wait.
Everyone enjoy this time of year and remember is true meaning - the birth of our Lord Jesus - without him we'd be lost.
Thanks for following.
Love
Gail
Also the electrician hooked up the office - so we'll be moving everything in there, getting Nate into his new room - and then just waiting to submit our Dossier - getting closer.
The holidays are here and we feel blessed. I follow a blog about another family who's adoption was held up for some reviews. Well after over 40 days they finally were told OK by the ET government and now waiting on the US government and hope to get to ET by the 30th! Yes next week - they posted they may fly out Xmas day and bring their little man home! What a blessing - they have some of the most amazing faith - so many people do- but they were an inspiration.
I'm hoping my xmas presents to myself come soon - some kids and family books on ET and a kids dictionary - Nate's still concerned he won't know how to talk to his brother/sister. Can't wait.
Everyone enjoy this time of year and remember is true meaning - the birth of our Lord Jesus - without him we'd be lost.
Thanks for following.
Love
Gail
Sunday, December 19, 2010
USCIS / Homeland Security Finger printing
Well- this past Friday was a BIG day - we had our finger prints taken at the Detroit USCIS office - it took a LOT longer to drive there then it did to actually take our prints and wait. Very efficient system. In the morning we are going to the local police station for our background check - and then just waiting on a letter from MY doctor - but other than that should have all the other paper work. So keep your fingers crossed- say some prayers that the form from the USCIS comes fast - it is approval to get a Visa to adopt a child internationally.
So in our preparations - the electrician has been out this weekend and we now have our computer in the new basement office. Still have to really set things up - using a little table at the moment, desk still in the room. My brother is hopefully coming in the next week or two to help us paint the current office - which will soon be Nate's new bedroom. Then once we accept a referral - we'll be able to plan more or wait for our new child to decorate their new bedroom. Just exciting. so slowly but surely we are getting ready.
the holidays are this week - well Christmas and just LOTS going on - exciting for us all.
Can't wait - lots happening -
continue to follow and thanks for the prayers
Happy holidays - the Backus'
So in our preparations - the electrician has been out this weekend and we now have our computer in the new basement office. Still have to really set things up - using a little table at the moment, desk still in the room. My brother is hopefully coming in the next week or two to help us paint the current office - which will soon be Nate's new bedroom. Then once we accept a referral - we'll be able to plan more or wait for our new child to decorate their new bedroom. Just exciting. so slowly but surely we are getting ready.
the holidays are this week - well Christmas and just LOTS going on - exciting for us all.
Can't wait - lots happening -
continue to follow and thanks for the prayers
Happy holidays - the Backus'
Saturday, December 11, 2010
What a great son
Wow - we have an awesome son! So Friday morning Nate work up early so I could see him before I left for work (NOT typical as I leave close to 6:30 am). Anyhow as I was packing my lunch and he was trying to get some breakfast he told me he had a dream about his "little brother" last night.
(comment inserted) - we do not know if we are adopting a boy or girl as we are leaving that up to God.
How ever, I feel we will have a boy. But we all remind each other - and Nate reminds me often -
Mommy it may be a sister too
So he said, but mommy, there were a lot more than just one brother. There were a bunch of kids. And we were playing, but it was hard. I asked - what was hard and how many kids. He said a lot of kids and NONE Of them spoke our language. But they did later and then it was a lot of fun. But mommy we aren't getting a lot of kids are we? I just want one. me - don't worry honey - just one. Good!
Just thought it was so sweet - he really does talk about his future sibling and wants to meet them. Earlier int he week he was very concerned we won't be able to talk or understand them. I told him we will get some dictionaries and learn some of the Amharic language - their language. They have a book for kids and one for big people. We'll probably get both. He said no - I want the big one so we can learn a lot and be able to talk to him (yes - we are all starting to say HIM a lot). But a girl will be just as good.
Just can't wait - we go visit Home Land Security this next week - wish us luck. Got more of Craig's paper work today and need to get a few more and then we are good to go! I need to get passport pictures and the local police background -but that will require me to take some time off work - which I'm hoping to avoid as much as possible. Mostly because I want to save EVERY second of my vacation time for our next child and our travels.
Thanks for reading all - love, Gail, Craig and Nate
(comment inserted) - we do not know if we are adopting a boy or girl as we are leaving that up to God.
How ever, I feel we will have a boy. But we all remind each other - and Nate reminds me often -
Mommy it may be a sister too
So he said, but mommy, there were a lot more than just one brother. There were a bunch of kids. And we were playing, but it was hard. I asked - what was hard and how many kids. He said a lot of kids and NONE Of them spoke our language. But they did later and then it was a lot of fun. But mommy we aren't getting a lot of kids are we? I just want one. me - don't worry honey - just one. Good!
Just thought it was so sweet - he really does talk about his future sibling and wants to meet them. Earlier int he week he was very concerned we won't be able to talk or understand them. I told him we will get some dictionaries and learn some of the Amharic language - their language. They have a book for kids and one for big people. We'll probably get both. He said no - I want the big one so we can learn a lot and be able to talk to him (yes - we are all starting to say HIM a lot). But a girl will be just as good.
Just can't wait - we go visit Home Land Security this next week - wish us luck. Got more of Craig's paper work today and need to get a few more and then we are good to go! I need to get passport pictures and the local police background -but that will require me to take some time off work - which I'm hoping to avoid as much as possible. Mostly because I want to save EVERY second of my vacation time for our next child and our travels.
Thanks for reading all - love, Gail, Craig and Nate
Thursday, December 09, 2010
BEST Christmas Cards - EVER - check out other posts for links to my Shutterfly books and cards
Hi everyone - this year I'm working to get free Christmas cards from www.shutterfly.com - http://bit.ly/sfly2010 - you can look at both links - they have awesome service. I have used Shutterfly for a many things. We used them for cards the first year Nate was born, last year and plan on using them this year. last years cards were totally awesome - I was able to upload 9 pictures into one really cool photo card - I had so many compliments on it I couldn't even believe it. 2009 Xmas card. This year they have so many different designs - I don't know which one to pick. Some of my favorites are: Faith, Love, Family; Picture Tree; Retro Snowflakes and many others - check them out at http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-cards?viewAll=true&sortType=1&foType=e&fa=8&DCL=true&fe=4&lfoType=a&fb=2
Here are just a few pictures we had in our photo books last year.
I recently have made their photo books this year from our Disney trip and then one from Nate's birth to early this year for my dad. These books are just awesome! My dad and whole family love them and so do I. Here are just a few of the pictures I added to my Shutterfly Album! Some made it to our books - others didn't - but you can see from our baby showers to some early times with Nate. ALSO - look up at another entry and I have finally found out how to share the projects - I have the recent Santa 2010 picture AND our big Photobook - you GOTTA check that one out.
Craig and I are the Wilcox Family Baby Shower
One of my favorite - Kisses Nate - created for his Nonnie (Craig's mom) for valentines day
A picture my friend Kathy made - too cute
Baby shower from Lisa (in middle) - it was the only one my mom could make - look how proud she was
Nate
Nate and Nate - Xmas 2004
Papa and Nate - apple orchard 2004
The programs I can use are really easy and allowed me to make things custom- using different formats and backgrounds - its just really cool. One really key thing is many people use the custom books to make a little book of pictures to leave with their child either before they get there or at their first trip - this way it helps the child get to know their family, house, our cats - you name it. I think that will ban awesome first gift for our future little one.
Hopefully this week I'm gonna load more pics from this summer and fall and make our 2010 Christmas cards. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-photo-cards
then when we get our little one home from Ethiopia I plan on sending out adoption announcements for our newest family member. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/birth-announcements
these will be awesome - I will get to make something special for our new little one.
the calendars are cool too - I"m hoping I find time to make one for our family this year as a stocking stuffer. http://www.shutterfly.com/calendars/wall-calendars - and I was even thinking if I can take TONS Of pictures in ET - I can make special calendars for our new little one of their home country and possibly even their caretakers and family if we can get their pictures. Wouldn't that be cool - especially when they get older.
Just check out this stuff and you possibly can get deals like this too - honestly www.Shutterfly.com is the only place we have found to do our pictures, cards and other photo related items over the last few years - they ROCK.
Don't forget - check out the other posts for links to our Shutterfly cards and photo books - they are totally awesome.
The Backus gang
Tuesday, December 07, 2010
Update from US Embassy in ET - not sure how this will work or affect us
So the following letter was posted on one of my Yahoo Groups from the agency - I"m not really sure what's up - but I know some families (ones I have never met, but I follow their blogs) are being investigated - one poor family has NO idea what's happening, they were trying to adopt another group of kids, one passed away and I think another is sick. Then they were referred this little boy and met him once and now the case is under investigation. Its just so tragic. Anyhow - this is what came out today - I know they are doing what's best for the kids - but it sure is scary.
Gail
Dear Families -
Please see below posting from the U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa. You can also view this notice onwww.adoption.state.gov.
We can assure you that AAI, both in the U.S. and our staff in Ethiopia have not been involved in any of the alleged cases of fraud, malfeasance and/or abuse in Ethiopia. It always has been and continues to be top priority to us to work with integrity and transparency. These priorities are also reflected in our connections with both the US government and Ethiopian government.
We have seen increased scrutiny in our families cases over the last few months and are confident that this is a result of an overall scrutiny of all adoption agencies. This was confirmed by U.S. Embassy staff that we met with last week in Ethiopia. They also confirmed that, to their knowledge, there is nothing specific to AAI that has been in question.
Adoption Processing at the U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa
December 7, 2010
The Department of State continues to be concerned about reports highlighting adoption related fraud, malfeasance, and abuse in Ethiopia, and acknowledges the concerns expressed by families over the integrity of the adoption process. The U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa actively tracks all adoption visa cases, incorporating information provided by adoption agencies and the Government of Ethiopia, to ensure that the adoption process continues to operate transparently and ethically.
The Ethiopian government requires that adoptive parents must appear at the Ethiopian federal court hearing for their adoptive child in order for the adoption to be approved. If there are two adoptive parents but only one parent can attend the hearing, special permission from the federal court must be obtained in advance,* and the attending parent must have a power of attorney from the other. It generally takes three weeks or more after the court date for the adoption agency to obtain the documentation necessary for an immigrant visa application, including the adopted child's birth certificate and Ethiopian passport. Adoptive parents can expect to wait at least one month after thecourt hearing for a visa interview appointment.
Adoptive parents should be aware that in all adoption visa cases worldwide, an I-604 investigation must be completed in connection with every I-600 application. Depending on the circumstances of the case, this investigation may take several weeks or even months to complete. Additional information may be required to determine the facts surrounding a child's relinquishment or abandonment and whether a child meets the definition of an orphan under U.S. immigration law. The Embassy strongly recommends that adoptive parents who return to the U.S. after the court hearing not travel again to Ethiopia for the immigrant visa process until they have confirmed with their adoption agency that the Embassy has scheduled a visa interview. Those who plan to stay in Ethiopia between the court hearing and interview should obtain Ethiopian visas in advance of travel, and ensure the validity of their visas to avoid immigration proceedings and/or significant fines.
* If only one parent meets the adoptive child before the court date, the child will qualify for an IR-4, not an IR-3 visa (which means that the child will not become a U.S. citizen upon entry to the United States and will have to be re-adopted in the United States).
The Embassy's Adoptions Unit can be reached at consadoptionaddis@state.gov.
Gail
Dear Families -
Please see below posting from the U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa. You can also view this notice onwww.adoption.state.gov.
We can assure you that AAI, both in the U.S. and our staff in Ethiopia have not been involved in any of the alleged cases of fraud, malfeasance and/or abuse in Ethiopia. It always has been and continues to be top priority to us to work with integrity and transparency. These priorities are also reflected in our connections with both the US government and Ethiopian government.
We have seen increased scrutiny in our families cases over the last few months and are confident that this is a result of an overall scrutiny of all adoption agencies. This was confirmed by U.S. Embassy staff that we met with last week in Ethiopia. They also confirmed that, to their knowledge, there is nothing specific to AAI that has been in question.
Adoption Processing at the U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa
December 7, 2010
The Department of State continues to be concerned about reports highlighting adoption related fraud, malfeasance, and abuse in Ethiopia, and acknowledges the concerns expressed by families over the integrity of the adoption process. The U.S. Embassy in Addis Ababa actively tracks all adoption visa cases, incorporating information provided by adoption agencies and the Government of Ethiopia, to ensure that the adoption process continues to operate transparently and ethically.
The Ethiopian government requires that adoptive parents must appear at the Ethiopian federal court hearing for their adoptive child in order for the adoption to be approved. If there are two adoptive parents but only one parent can attend the hearing, special permission from the federal court must be obtained in advance,* and the attending parent must have a power of attorney from the other. It generally takes three weeks or more after the court date for the adoption agency to obtain the documentation necessary for an immigrant visa application, including the adopted child's birth certificate and Ethiopian passport. Adoptive parents can expect to wait at least one month after thecourt hearing for a visa interview appointment.
Adoptive parents should be aware that in all adoption visa cases worldwide, an I-604 investigation must be completed in connection with every I-600 application. Depending on the circumstances of the case, this investigation may take several weeks or even months to complete. Additional information may be required to determine the facts surrounding a child's relinquishment or abandonment and whether a child meets the definition of an orphan under U.S. immigration law. The Embassy strongly recommends that adoptive parents who return to the U.S. after the court hearing not travel again to Ethiopia for the immigrant visa process until they have confirmed with their adoption agency that the Embassy has scheduled a visa interview. Those who plan to stay in Ethiopia between the court hearing and interview should obtain Ethiopian visas in advance of travel, and ensure the validity of their visas to avoid immigration proceedings and/or significant fines.
* If only one parent meets the adoptive child before the court date, the child will qualify for an IR-4, not an IR-3 visa (which means that the child will not become a U.S. citizen upon entry to the United States and will have to be re-adopted in the United States).
The Embassy's Adoptions Unit can be reached at consadoptionaddis@state.gov.
Monday, December 06, 2010
Another letter in hand
Well we received another letter - signed and notarized today - a letter from MY doctor that clears my health tests ET requires. VERY happy about that and for my awesome doctor. Guess one tests was "borderline positive' and she didn't agree and had them run it again - two different ways - both came back negative - so it was a false positive. Pretty scary knowing the tests they had done. We should have Craig's letter finalized tomorrow! YEAH -
Then DHS next Friday - another BIG step - then we have to go get stuff done at the local police station. its one thing after another.
Stressed is a big issue - we'll see how life turns out - still keep dreaming of our child waiting out there for us - sure can't wait!
Just a side note - please pray for our friends son Gabriel - he has some unknown blood disorder, needs help to figure it out (so RARE less than 100 people have it) - and then has iron build up (deadly levels) because of all his blood transfusions. AND then on top of all that and totally unrelated needs brain surgery SOON for a brain malformation. All this and his parents are expecting child #4 any day now - just hard.
I look at life and no matter what troubles we are facing we have each other! That's what we need more than anything in the world.
Gail
Then DHS next Friday - another BIG step - then we have to go get stuff done at the local police station. its one thing after another.
Stressed is a big issue - we'll see how life turns out - still keep dreaming of our child waiting out there for us - sure can't wait!
Just a side note - please pray for our friends son Gabriel - he has some unknown blood disorder, needs help to figure it out (so RARE less than 100 people have it) - and then has iron build up (deadly levels) because of all his blood transfusions. AND then on top of all that and totally unrelated needs brain surgery SOON for a brain malformation. All this and his parents are expecting child #4 any day now - just hard.
I look at life and no matter what troubles we are facing we have each other! That's what we need more than anything in the world.
Gail
Sunday, December 05, 2010
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Saturday, December 04, 2010
A quick note - nothing big
Just a quick note - been traveling and working hard - but still trying to get ready for the holidays, paperwork done - and so much more.
I just keep thinking this time next year - we may have another bundle of joy in our lives! Isn't God amazing - I do believe he's looking out for us. Not only do I have paperwork for the Dossier - I may need to take more time off work to just get some appointments in. Thank God that our finger printing with Home Land Security is on an "off Friday" - but Redford PD isn't open on my days off - or they don't do adoption stuff then. I also have to start applying for loans and grants! Not sure we'll be able to get the $ in time for the dossier submission - but we just continue to pray it all works out. Its very difficult knowing how much we want to expand our family - but it always comes with a cost. All to just do the paperwork - Scary
anyhow - I"m chugging away at it all - as many other families are out there. I'm meeting more and more out there. Learning about travel things, what to bring, what airlines to fly - and Ethiopian Air has a new jet - so that's looking pretty awesome - unfortunately its business class seats are probably a little too much - but man that would be cool. I keep dreaming to figure out a way to bring Nate on our last trip - I believe that could be a bonding experience for our soon to be family of 4 - I can't wait.
So I'm babbling on and on - I should go clean and get more work done. Thanks for you for following - its always fun! I love keeping up on many more -
Love
Gail
I just keep thinking this time next year - we may have another bundle of joy in our lives! Isn't God amazing - I do believe he's looking out for us. Not only do I have paperwork for the Dossier - I may need to take more time off work to just get some appointments in. Thank God that our finger printing with Home Land Security is on an "off Friday" - but Redford PD isn't open on my days off - or they don't do adoption stuff then. I also have to start applying for loans and grants! Not sure we'll be able to get the $ in time for the dossier submission - but we just continue to pray it all works out. Its very difficult knowing how much we want to expand our family - but it always comes with a cost. All to just do the paperwork - Scary
anyhow - I"m chugging away at it all - as many other families are out there. I'm meeting more and more out there. Learning about travel things, what to bring, what airlines to fly - and Ethiopian Air has a new jet - so that's looking pretty awesome - unfortunately its business class seats are probably a little too much - but man that would be cool. I keep dreaming to figure out a way to bring Nate on our last trip - I believe that could be a bonding experience for our soon to be family of 4 - I can't wait.
So I'm babbling on and on - I should go clean and get more work done. Thanks for you for following - its always fun! I love keeping up on many more -
Love
Gail
BEST Christmas cards ever - check out my deals
Hi everyone - this year I'm working to get free Christmas cards from www.shutterfly.com - http://bit.ly/sfly2010 - you can look at both links - they have awesome service. I have used Shutterfly for a many things. We used them for cards the first year Nate was born, last year and plan on using them this year. last years cards were totally awesome - I was able to upload 9 pictures into one really cool photo card - I had so many compliments on it I couldn't even believe it. 2009 Xmas card. This year they have so many different designs - I don't know which one to pick. Some of my favorites are: Faith, Love, Family; Picture Tree; Retro Snowflakes and many others - check them out at http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-cards?viewAll=true&sortType=1&foType=e&fa=8&DCL=true&fe=4&lfoType=a&fb=2
Here are just a few pictures we had in our photo books last year.
I recently have made their photo books this year from our Disney trip and then one from Nate's birth to early this year for my dad. These books are just awesome! My dad and whole family love them and so do I. Here are just a few of the pictures I added to my Shutterfly Album! Some made it to our books - others didn't - but you can see from our baby showers to some early times with Nate. ALSO - look up at another entry and I have finally found out how to share the projects - I have the recent Santa 2010 picture AND our big Photobook - you GOTTA check that one out.
The programs I can use are really easy and allowed me to make things custom- using different formats and backgrounds - its just really cool. One really key thing is many people use the custom books to make a little book of pictures to leave with their child either before they get there or at their first trip - this way it helps the child get to know their family, house, our cats - you name it. I think that will ban awesome first gift for our future little one.
Hopefully this week I'm gonna load more pics from this summer and fall and make our 2010 Christmas cards. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-photo-cards
then when we get our little one home from Ethiopia I plan on sending out adoption announcements for our newest family member. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/birth-announcements
these will be awesome - I will get to make something special for our new little one.
the calendars are cool too - I"m hoping I find time to make one for our family this year as a stocking stuffer. http://www.shutterfly.com/calendars/wall-calendars - and I was even thinking if I can take TONS Of pictures in ET - I can make special calendars for our new little one of their home country and possibly even their caretakers and family if we can get their pictures. Wouldn't that be cool - especially when they get older.
Just check out this stuff and you possibly can get deals like this too - honestly www.Shutterfly.com is the only place we have found to do our pictures, cards and other photo related items over the last few years - they ROCK.
The Backus gang
Here are just a few pictures we had in our photo books last year.
I recently have made their photo books this year from our Disney trip and then one from Nate's birth to early this year for my dad. These books are just awesome! My dad and whole family love them and so do I. Here are just a few of the pictures I added to my Shutterfly Album! Some made it to our books - others didn't - but you can see from our baby showers to some early times with Nate. ALSO - look up at another entry and I have finally found out how to share the projects - I have the recent Santa 2010 picture AND our big Photobook - you GOTTA check that one out.
Craig and I are the Wilcox Family Baby Shower
One of my favorite - Kisses Nate - created for his Nonnie (Craig's mom) for valentines day
A picture my friend Kathy made - too cute
Baby shower from Lisa (in middle) - it was the only one my mom could make - look how proud she was
Nate
Nate and Nate - Xmas 2004
Papa and Nate - apple orchard 2004
The programs I can use are really easy and allowed me to make things custom- using different formats and backgrounds - its just really cool. One really key thing is many people use the custom books to make a little book of pictures to leave with their child either before they get there or at their first trip - this way it helps the child get to know their family, house, our cats - you name it. I think that will ban awesome first gift for our future little one.
Hopefully this week I'm gonna load more pics from this summer and fall and make our 2010 Christmas cards. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/christmas-photo-cards
then when we get our little one home from Ethiopia I plan on sending out adoption announcements for our newest family member. http://www.shutterfly.com/cards-stationery/birth-announcements
these will be awesome - I will get to make something special for our new little one.
the calendars are cool too - I"m hoping I find time to make one for our family this year as a stocking stuffer. http://www.shutterfly.com/calendars/wall-calendars - and I was even thinking if I can take TONS Of pictures in ET - I can make special calendars for our new little one of their home country and possibly even their caretakers and family if we can get their pictures. Wouldn't that be cool - especially when they get older.
Just check out this stuff and you possibly can get deals like this too - honestly www.Shutterfly.com is the only place we have found to do our pictures, cards and other photo related items over the last few years - they ROCK.
The Backus gang
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