Back in Michigan

We've made it back to Michigan. We did stop by the hospital before we left today, and Mom was more alert, but concerned because she had been awake since 4.30a this morning. I mentioned to her that she slept most of yesterday, but evidently didn't realize it. The nurse heard me mention this, and she said that the combination of morphine and flexorall was likely what was making her dozy. She hadn't taken the flexorall all week, but asked her General Practitioner for it on Saturday. It must have taken a little while to kick in, and by Sunday it had her quite relaxed.

I told her I'd call in a couple of days to see how she was doing, and she said that she'd call me first if she got out of the hospital. I think she's going to have to come a long way before getting out of the hospital. She's been so tired, and her system just isn't reacting right, but if she works to build up her strength this week, she might possibly have a chance of getting out by week's end. I think it's more likely that she'll end up with a stint at a rehab facility to help her build up the strength to get home. We've seen this before with my Dad, and Gail's Grandma, and they were really able to make a big difference. In the hospital, they're really trying to treat the biggest problems, but they don't really focus on getting people ready to go home. This is all rampant speculation on my part, but we'll see how it goes.

Sunday Update

Well, today wasn't a great day. She didn't have a lot of issues with pain, as I didn't hear her ask for morphine at all, but today's main issue was nausea. She didn't feel right all day, and didn't eat anything either. She was able to get a lot of sleep today, so hopefully that will make a difference. There was an additionl liter of fluid in her chest tube output, and it was clamped for the day, so hopefully that will come out tomorrow and they'll be able to use the drug that Dr. Jezorio mentioned that will seal off the lung's protective covering.

We didn't end up seeing Jennifer today as she was still dealing with the after effects of the bug or whatever she's dealing with. She discovered today that there is some leak under the bathroom so she's put a call in with the local handy man to hopefully get this fixed in the near future.

We plan to head back to Michigan tomorrow, but we'll be stopping in at the hospital before we leave.

I just hope she's able to eat something soon. Gail said that she was down to 107 upon entering the hospital, and I'm sure she's lost more weight this week. I guess we'll just have to wait and see and hope for the best.

Saturday Update

Long day at the hospital, but we did get to talk to a couple of doctors today. Mom's brother Bob made it into the valley late last night on his way back to CT from Reading, PA. (just a minor detour......... ;-) )

Mom's general practitioner made the first stop about 9.30a, and she seemed to think that while this was a bit of a set back, that mom will likely rebound pretty well and be able to continue her chemo treatments and return home relatively soon. She wasn't too sure about the chest tube, but another doctor stopped by later and had the drain continue, and there was a total of more than 2 liters of fluid by the time we left. We talked to her pulminary specialist, and she felt that the chest tube would remain in until Monday, and then they were going to try a drug that will coat the lining that protects the lung, and hopefully prevent further fluid from building up.

She's still having quite a bit of pain, and looks for the morphine every two hours on the dot, but the biggest pain right now is the chest tube, so once that's out, she'll hopefully have much less pain.

Another new thing for mom was a nebulized breathing treatment. They must have heard a little crackle in her lungs, and want to prevent pneumonia, so they started that tonight. She also has a "lung exerciser" which she needs to use to do deep breathing exercises and that should help to cough up the extra fluid.

One really good sign was that she asked for a fishamajig sandwich from Friendly's. She hasn't eaten a whole lot this week, but she seemed really interested in this, so we went out to dinner there and brought it back. She hadn't started it by the time we left, but I'm hoping she'll eat at least half of it.

I guess Jennifer has caught some kind of bug, as she's not been feeling well, and now Conrad has the same symptoms. (No need for a big description, let's just say "stomach problems.") He drank out of one of her glasses, so hopefully she didn't transfer the bug to Mom, but needless to say, we'll likely not be connecting with them tomorrow.

We'll probably head up there a little later tomorrow, and try to get Mom out of bed, and at least into the chair next to it. She's likely not going to be able to go far with the chest tube in, but she's got to move around somewhat.

More news tomorrow.................

Reporting Live from Happy Valley!

Gail, Nate and I arrived in the valley tonight, and we saw Mom for an hour and a half or so. They did install the chest tube today, and drained off what looked to be more than 1 liter of fluid. The doctor had clamped it earlier in the day, but left it installed, so I'm not sure what that means, but it's likely that she'll have to try to sleep with it in all night. Mom's brother, Bob, will be arriving late tonight and plans to go up to the hospital with me tomorrow morning. We're hoping to talk to Dr. Razia who is the oncologist that Mom has been seeing since last year. More news tomorrow.............

Fluid Removal Delayed

Well, they were going to draw off the fluid in her lungs yesterday, but her cumadin level was too high, and remained high today. I talked to her an hour or so ago, and she sounded like she was doing pretty well. She's still taking morphine regularly to control the pain, but she was coherent and responsive. We talked about some TV shows that were on this week, and about us visiting Pauline over the weekend. We'll be heading to the valley tomorrow, so I'll have a first hand report at some point this weekend. I'm hoping that we might get to talk to the doctor Saturday morning to ask about where things stand and what the future holds.

Wednesday Update

I talked to Mom last night, and she sounded okay. She was still experiencing some pain, and had just gotten some morphine, so hopefully she was able to get some rest. She was concerned about what was on TV, so I told her how Boston Legal would be starting at 9.30 and she was glad to hear that and planned to watch it.

Today, they're going to drain some fluid from her lung. I hope that goes well. I guess they just use some novacaine, and do a small incision to insert the tube and allow it to drain. I know one time for Dad it didn't seal up right, and it allowed air to leak in all over his body. His skin felt like bubble wrap and it started to close off his windpipe! They were able to act quickly and got him squared away, but it was a little freaky. (This happened 3 or 4 years ago.) Needless to say, I didn't share this little story with Mom, but I am hoping that it goes better for her today. I'm pretty sure they did the same thing last year when she first went into the hospital, and she didn't have any problems.

Update from Nurse

I called in and spoke to Mom's nurse today. She said that she's using the morphine a bit less over the last couple of days, so it seems that the pain has subsided somewhat. (She's still using morphine, so whatever pain she has must be stronger than your run of the mill headache.)

I also called into Dr. Razia's office, and left a message hoping to find out more about why there's an increase in pain in the last couple of weeks. I posed a couple of ideas to the nurse, and she said that it would be inappropriate for her to speculate about it and that I should try to connect with the doctor.

The nurse didn't indicate that there were any plans to discharge Mom, so It's likely she'll be there until her status improves. Razia should be back to the office by Friday, and may check in with Mom over the weekend.

Gail, Nate and I plan to head to the valley this weekend. I'm not sure if we're heading out Thursday evening, or Friday, but we'll likely be there by Friday evening, and plan to head back to Detroit on Monday. I'll bring my laptop with me, and should be able to post updates while we're there.

Hospital Update

Mom is in a LOT of pain this weekend. It's unclear as to what the cause might be. She's getting some big doses of morphine, and that's helping so that she can get some rest and get something to eat. If she's not able to eat much on her own, they're going to move forward with a feeding tube soon. Not much happens at hospitals on the weekend, so hopefully we'll hear more as the week progresses.

Mom in Hospital

Mom is in the hospital. She's been real weak lately, and her doctor advised that they would skip chemo this week, and try to get her strength built up. She hasn't been eating or drinking much, and was dehydrated. I'm sure she'll feel better once she gets some fluids into her. Keep her in your thoughts and prayers...........

Wilcox Wedding Pictures have been posted!

I got the official word last night that I can post these to the site! Enjoy!

Wedding News!

It's official! Doug is set to marry Mary Wyka on August 31! We're looking forward to it!

Nate's Third Birthday

Today's Nate's official third birthday, and we went to the Ann Arbor Hands-on Museum. There were a lot of projects there, and Nate enjoyed a few of them quite a bit. I posted some pictures on the website.

New Pictures

I thought I would see what I could figure out with the Multiply site. I determined that I could set up certain folders to be viewed by everyone, so I uploaded some recent photos, and I also found a video on the PC from last Easter. I'll see how much more I can add in my 'spare' time.

Jennifer's Blog

Please note that Jennifer has created her own blog as she's not clear on how to make posts to this blog. I've added a link to the left to quickly access it.

It sounds like Mom is going to be in the hospital for a few more days dealing with the chest tube and recovering from the surgery overall. No word yet on when they might reschedule the other procedure that was supposed to be completed this week.

Mom in the Hospital

Well, I'm not sure why, but the doctor's identified some fluid around her heart. They plan to drain it on Monday and hopefully figure out if it's a huge problem, or just another bump in the road.

This stay at the hospital has postponed one procedure that was supposed to be this week, so hopefully that will get rescheduled so that she can continue her chemotherapy routine and keep the existing cancers at bay.

She's very anxious for us to firm up our trip to Vegas as we're hoping to go before it gets too hot there, but we may just have to plan lots of indoor activities once we do get things finalized.

Please keep her in your prayers, and we'll hope for the best.