We continue to choose the road less traveled. Our stories started in New York and Michigan. We took an detour to New Jersey, and had a most excellent adventure to Ethiopia. In July, 2013 we moved our family from Detroit to Texas. People can say a lot about us, but they can't accuse us of being boring....
Tuesday, September 25, 2007
Update from Nurse
I also called into Dr. Razia's office, and left a message hoping to find out more about why there's an increase in pain in the last couple of weeks. I posed a couple of ideas to the nurse, and she said that it would be inappropriate for her to speculate about it and that I should try to connect with the doctor.
The nurse didn't indicate that there were any plans to discharge Mom, so It's likely she'll be there until her status improves. Razia should be back to the office by Friday, and may check in with Mom over the weekend.
Gail, Nate and I plan to head to the valley this weekend. I'm not sure if we're heading out Thursday evening, or Friday, but we'll likely be there by Friday evening, and plan to head back to Detroit on Monday. I'll bring my laptop with me, and should be able to post updates while we're there.
Sunday, September 23, 2007
Hospital Update
Thursday, September 20, 2007
Mom in Hospital
Sunday, September 09, 2007
Wilcox Wedding Pictures have been posted!
I got the official word last night that I can post these to the site! Enjoy!
Friday, August 03, 2007
Wedding News!
It's official! Doug is set to marry Mary Wyka on August 31! We're looking forward to it!
Monday, July 09, 2007
Nate's Third Birthday
Tuesday, July 03, 2007
New Pictures
I thought I would see what I could figure out with the Multiply site. I determined that I could set up certain folders to be viewed by everyone, so I uploaded some recent photos, and I also found a video on the PC from last Easter. I'll see how much more I can add in my 'spare' time.
Wednesday, April 25, 2007
Jennifer's Blog
It sounds like Mom is going to be in the hospital for a few more days dealing with the chest tube and recovering from the surgery overall. No word yet on when they might reschedule the other procedure that was supposed to be completed this week.
Saturday, April 21, 2007
Mom in the Hospital
This stay at the hospital has postponed one procedure that was supposed to be this week, so hopefully that will get rescheduled so that she can continue her chemotherapy routine and keep the existing cancers at bay.
She's very anxious for us to firm up our trip to Vegas as we're hoping to go before it gets too hot there, but we may just have to plan lots of indoor activities once we do get things finalized.
Please keep her in your prayers, and we'll hope for the best.
Saturday, December 30, 2006
2006 is OVER and good riddance!
Happy New Year!
Craig
Sunday, October 29, 2006
My Funeral Tribute
Gail thought it would be appropriate for me to post my notes from the funeral service on October 11. I had written them out because I knew it would be difficult to say with all of the emotions of the week.
Integrity, curiosity, humility, steadfastness, and guts………
These are a few of the things that my father taught me, and these are things that I will hold dear.
My father taught me about integrity……….
My father may not have been a perfect man, but he held his integrity above all else. This served him well, and also earned him many retractors who complained that he “wouldn’t go along” or “keep his mouth shut.” He did not do these things lightly. He fought for what he believed in, and would not waiver to popular opinion.
My father taught me about curiosity……….
He always sought to find a better way to do things. He was constantly looking for ways to save money or speed processes at his various jobs. He spent the most time on things that interested him including trees, plants, minerals, and gold panning. He knew the name of every tree in the forest, and he could name every rock we walked past. Once he amazed you with this information, he could tell you how it got there (generally from a glacier from Canada), and approximately when.
My father taught me about humility…………
My father had some rough roads in his life, and he did his best to get over many obstacles, and sought out assistance when he needed it the most. I think this made him appreciate the people around him even more and enriched our lives in the last few years.
My father taught me about steadfastness………..
This was evident not only in his jobs, but most recently in working for his friends at Coventry Place. When he went into the hospital this last time, one of the first errands I was directed to run was to get the notes he had typed up from two meetings to Jean to ensure that they would get distributed to the appropriate people. Who else but my father would think of such a thing lying in a hospital bed struggling to breathe?
My father taught me about guts…………..
Through all the hardships of life, my father fought to make things better for himself, for his family and his friends. He had a heart attack 9 years ago that the doctor’s said would have killed most people. Dad fought back, and continued to fight through surgeries, hospital stays, and dragging around that oxygen tank for the last year. He did this just to get as much time as possible with the people around him.
Integrity, curiosity, humility, steadfastness, and guts………
These are a few of the reasons why I loved my father. These are the things I will cherish, and these are the things that have helped to shape me as a man, and these are the things I will teach my son.
Saturday, October 14, 2006
NYS Memorial Set
First Presbyterian Church
90 Morgan St
Ilion, NY 13357
Phone:
315-894-2070
Sunday, October 08, 2006
Finalized Funeral arragneemtns
Please feel free to come and attend this as well. It will mean a lot to Craig and I.
Our church is the First Farmington United Methodist Church - I know you can look up the address at the www.umc.org website.
Thanks for all that have expressed the sadness and all that stuff - we appreciate everything very much.
Love,
Gail, Craig, Nate and the rest of the Backus family.
Saturday, October 07, 2006
Ronald C. Backus (November 20, 1935 - October 7, 2006)
Age 70, of Redford Township. Born in Frankfort, New York.
Loving father of Craig (Gail) Backus and Jennifer (Tim) Farmer. Cherished grandfather of T.J. and Nate. Dear brother of Lynn (Susan) Backus and Sandra (Richard) Herron.
Funeral Wednesday (time pending) at First United Methodist Church of Farmington 33112 Grand River Avenue, Farmington. Officiant Rev. Dr. Jeffrey R. Maxwell, Pastor.
Visitation Tuesday 2-5 and 7-9 p.m. at Thayer-Rock Funeral Home, 33603 Grand River Avenue, downtown Farmington (1 blk. W. of Farmington Rd.).
Memorial contributions may be made to Volunteers of America, 24701 Swanson Rd., Southfield, MI 48034 or the American Lung Association of Michigan, 25900 Greenfield Rd., Ste 401, Oak Park MI 48237.
Friday, October 06, 2006
Ron's slipping again
Even one of the nurses asked Craig if he had the medical power of attorney - of course we don't yet. WE have it all ready, but waitig for Ron to be "sane" again - so that it can be done.
Please continue your prayers - its looking like another LONG weekend.
One positive this weekend is that Liz is here for a visit - Nate has really taken to his Nonnie - he really likes her - its so precious I love it. He was holding her hand and walking in the parking lot after dinner tonight. Its just adorable. It just took his turf and a lot of quiet.
Gail